So, Halloween is here! Always my favorite time of year. When I was a kid, obviously I loved Halloween because of the pillow case full of candy I would always receive from generous neighbors.
Now it's not so much about candy, it's more about Halloween parties with sexy women in mind blowing SEXY costumes! Just go out on the streets Friday night and you'll find them... kitty outfits, devil outfits, cop girl outfits, and I'm sure we're going to see more than a few Sarah Palin clones out there this year. Not that I mind.
So, how does online dating fit into all of this. Well, now's the time to send a "Halloween Party" email template to women. Chances are, you know where a halloween party is this year and if you don't, ask someone where one is.
Go online and send a woman something like,
Subject: "Halloween Party Wanted"
Body: "OK, you look like a person who just might know where one is in our lovely town. So, show me the way to the nearest, wildest Halloween Party and I just might give you the pleasure of escorting me.
Let me know soon! Time is running out!
Name
There you go. Try it out. You just might meet someone special and have the time of your life in the process.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Monday, October 27, 2008
The BEST sample profiles
So, you sit down to write a dating profile and you have NO idea what to write. You REALLY want to write one up but NOTHING is coming to mind.
Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?
Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?
No, not a good idea!
It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.
There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.
If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.
It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.
It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.
So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.
Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?
Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?
No, not a good idea!
It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.
There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.
If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.
It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.
It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.
So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.
Friday, October 17, 2008
Make it a Habit!
One really important thing to do when you're "online dating" is to develop a system that works for you. Take all the components involved; designing an eye-catching profile and tweaking it, responding to women, going out on dates, calling women, and create a system that will allow you to have all of it on autopilot.
Let's take emailing women as an example. You come home from work after a busy day and you decide to fire off some emails. Well, first you need to check your inbox and see who has emailed and winked at you. Go through the winks and decide which of the women who sent them you find attractive. Don't wink back at them! Instead, fire off your standard, "wink response" and see if she bites. If not, no big deal. Now quickly move to your emails. Again, decide which ones you like and send your standard, "she emailed first" response...
Done. That was easy!
Now, quickly check out the profiles of women who have viewed you recently. These are women who are already interested in you... Look for ones you find attractive and send your standard, "viewed me" email to them. If she bites fine. If not, move on.
Decide to send a total of five emails tonight. If the amount of "viewed me" emails you just sent doesn't total five, start doing a profile search in your area. Find women you really like and then fire off your standard, "first email."
You sent five emails! You're done for tonight! Now go on to something more important while you wait to see the results of your efforts.
That's it! Online Dating on autopilot. Make it a habit!
Let's take emailing women as an example. You come home from work after a busy day and you decide to fire off some emails. Well, first you need to check your inbox and see who has emailed and winked at you. Go through the winks and decide which of the women who sent them you find attractive. Don't wink back at them! Instead, fire off your standard, "wink response" and see if she bites. If not, no big deal. Now quickly move to your emails. Again, decide which ones you like and send your standard, "she emailed first" response...
Done. That was easy!
Now, quickly check out the profiles of women who have viewed you recently. These are women who are already interested in you... Look for ones you find attractive and send your standard, "viewed me" email to them. If she bites fine. If not, move on.
Decide to send a total of five emails tonight. If the amount of "viewed me" emails you just sent doesn't total five, start doing a profile search in your area. Find women you really like and then fire off your standard, "first email."
You sent five emails! You're done for tonight! Now go on to something more important while you wait to see the results of your efforts.
That's it! Online Dating on autopilot. Make it a habit!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
The Best Cities For Singles??
OK, here is an article from Forbes Magazine "claiming" to know the best cities for singles. Check it out:
If you’re living life solo, Atlanta is the place to be right now. Its night life, high number of singles and job growth earned it the top spot. San Francisco slipped to second.
By Michael Noer, Forbes
For the first time ever, Atlanta tops Forbes’ list of the best cities for singles. The capital of Georgia and home of Coca-Cola earns the top slot because of its hopping night life, relatively high number of singles and sizzling job growth.
To those who know "Hotlanta," the ranking should come as no surprise. In the eight years that Forbes has been ranking America's largest urban areas in terms of their friendliness to the nation's 74 million single adults, only once did Atlanta place outside the top 10.
To determine which U.S. cities are most comfortable for singles, Forbes ranked the 40 largest urbanized areas in mainland America in seven different categories: number of singles, night life, culture, cost of living alone, job growth, online dating activity and coolness. To determine a city's cool factor, Forbes partnered with Harris Interactive, which conducted a poll asking, "Among the following U.S. cities, which one do you think is the coolest?"
Last year's winner, San Francisco, came in second this year, scoring particularly high in coolness (third out of 40) and culture (fourth). Overall, the coolest city was New York, while Midwestern cities such as Indianapolis (40th) and Columbus, Ohio, (35th) did poorly in the Harris poll.
Overall, New York ranked as only the eighth-best place for would-be lovers. In addition to its top score in coolness, the Big Apple was ranked as the city with the best night life and the third-best cultural resources. But young singles need to eat as well as party, and New York scored dead last in the cost-of-living category. The city also placed a mediocre 29th in terms of job growth. Economic factors have always kept New York out of the top spot on the list.
The nation's second-largest city, Los Angeles, came in 16th this year, a precipitous drop from its third-place finish in 2007. Blame the cost of living in sun-drenched SoCal and a lackadaisical online dating culture.
Jacksonville, Fla., ranked dead last this year, scoring poorly in all categories except online dating, where it ranked seventh. Providence, R.I. — last year's loneliest city for singles — fared better, tying with Memphis, Tenn., and Cincinnati for 33rd place. Religious Salt Lake City, a perennial at the bottom of the list, comes in 39th this year. Mormonism's hometown is penalized for its lack of available singles (39th), dismal night life (39th) and square image (coolness: 38th).
Some surprises: Orlando, Fla., which had never placed in the top 10 before, finished in ninth place. Minneapolis-St. Paul hadn't made the top 10 since 2002 but came in third this year. The Twin Cities scored well in culture (ninth) and online dating (sixth) and ranked surprisingly high in coolness (eighth). Perhaps some respondents thought the Harris poll was asking about the weather.
Forbes’ rankings are meant to be a guide for young, ambitious singles who, in an age of techno-mobility, can live and work wherever they want. The methodology focuses on career-minded "never-marrieds" under 35. Older singles, divorced people, widows and widowers might find slightly different criteria more relevant to them.
Here are the top five:
Atlanta
San Francisco
Dallas (tie)
Minneapolis (tie)
Washington, D.C.
Well well! Sounds like good job security for the team of "experts" who are generating this nonsense!
Here's the bottom line; There are attractive, high quality, attractive, single women in EVERY city in the world! There are TONS of women on internet dating sites on every city in the world. If you choose to believe in the negative and think there are NO women around you then you are going to end up dating NO women! I used to use that as an excuse believeing there were NO quality women in my area. I had a whole list of reasons including:
They're all too stuckup.
They're all gold diggers.
They're only into tall guys.
They're all emotionally unavailable.
They're all too fat.
Believe me, I was very good at coming up with excuses to NOT date women in my area.
Don't do it! You're only giving into fear. There are always tons of good women around you.
YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THEM!!
If you use my strategies for dating women online, then you will find them... quickly! It's just a matter of learning the skills and then applying what you've learned. It's so quick and easy to do, that you'll kick yourself for not doing it sooner!
So, go online and start finding women! There is NO excuse for being alone!
If you’re living life solo, Atlanta is the place to be right now. Its night life, high number of singles and job growth earned it the top spot. San Francisco slipped to second.
By Michael Noer, Forbes
For the first time ever, Atlanta tops Forbes’ list of the best cities for singles. The capital of Georgia and home of Coca-Cola earns the top slot because of its hopping night life, relatively high number of singles and sizzling job growth.
To those who know "Hotlanta," the ranking should come as no surprise. In the eight years that Forbes has been ranking America's largest urban areas in terms of their friendliness to the nation's 74 million single adults, only once did Atlanta place outside the top 10.
To determine which U.S. cities are most comfortable for singles, Forbes ranked the 40 largest urbanized areas in mainland America in seven different categories: number of singles, night life, culture, cost of living alone, job growth, online dating activity and coolness. To determine a city's cool factor, Forbes partnered with Harris Interactive, which conducted a poll asking, "Among the following U.S. cities, which one do you think is the coolest?"
Last year's winner, San Francisco, came in second this year, scoring particularly high in coolness (third out of 40) and culture (fourth). Overall, the coolest city was New York, while Midwestern cities such as Indianapolis (40th) and Columbus, Ohio, (35th) did poorly in the Harris poll.
Overall, New York ranked as only the eighth-best place for would-be lovers. In addition to its top score in coolness, the Big Apple was ranked as the city with the best night life and the third-best cultural resources. But young singles need to eat as well as party, and New York scored dead last in the cost-of-living category. The city also placed a mediocre 29th in terms of job growth. Economic factors have always kept New York out of the top spot on the list.
The nation's second-largest city, Los Angeles, came in 16th this year, a precipitous drop from its third-place finish in 2007. Blame the cost of living in sun-drenched SoCal and a lackadaisical online dating culture.
Jacksonville, Fla., ranked dead last this year, scoring poorly in all categories except online dating, where it ranked seventh. Providence, R.I. — last year's loneliest city for singles — fared better, tying with Memphis, Tenn., and Cincinnati for 33rd place. Religious Salt Lake City, a perennial at the bottom of the list, comes in 39th this year. Mormonism's hometown is penalized for its lack of available singles (39th), dismal night life (39th) and square image (coolness: 38th).
Some surprises: Orlando, Fla., which had never placed in the top 10 before, finished in ninth place. Minneapolis-St. Paul hadn't made the top 10 since 2002 but came in third this year. The Twin Cities scored well in culture (ninth) and online dating (sixth) and ranked surprisingly high in coolness (eighth). Perhaps some respondents thought the Harris poll was asking about the weather.
Forbes’ rankings are meant to be a guide for young, ambitious singles who, in an age of techno-mobility, can live and work wherever they want. The methodology focuses on career-minded "never-marrieds" under 35. Older singles, divorced people, widows and widowers might find slightly different criteria more relevant to them.
Here are the top five:
Atlanta
San Francisco
Dallas (tie)
Minneapolis (tie)
Washington, D.C.
Well well! Sounds like good job security for the team of "experts" who are generating this nonsense!
Here's the bottom line; There are attractive, high quality, attractive, single women in EVERY city in the world! There are TONS of women on internet dating sites on every city in the world. If you choose to believe in the negative and think there are NO women around you then you are going to end up dating NO women! I used to use that as an excuse believeing there were NO quality women in my area. I had a whole list of reasons including:
They're all too stuckup.
They're all gold diggers.
They're only into tall guys.
They're all emotionally unavailable.
They're all too fat.
Believe me, I was very good at coming up with excuses to NOT date women in my area.
Don't do it! You're only giving into fear. There are always tons of good women around you.
YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THEM!!
If you use my strategies for dating women online, then you will find them... quickly! It's just a matter of learning the skills and then applying what you've learned. It's so quick and easy to do, that you'll kick yourself for not doing it sooner!
So, go online and start finding women! There is NO excuse for being alone!
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