OK, I want you to stop and think why you want to read this post. Is it because of the subject line? I'm thinking yes! We often don't realize how important subject lines are when writing to women on internet dating sites. There are so many different variations I use to get a woman's attention and this is yet another one.
So, I start my email with this subject line, "This is going to piss you off." Do you think she's going to open it? Damn right! Now, where do I go from there? How do I start off this email? Well I need to be clever and make it funny. What could piss her off? Think about typical "chick" things that annoy them. Well, what could be more annoying than other guys on dating sites!! It's always fun to reference some dude who's totally clueless when it comes to online dating. Ok, here we go:
Subject: "This is totally going to piss you off!"
Body: I mean, it's come to my attention that the guy below me in your inbox is actually MARRIED and looking for a fling. Really! If that isn't bad enough, the guy above you is LYING about his age! Ok, now that we've established their true intentions, we can focus on me...
And just take it from there!
Friday, December 12, 2008
Monday, December 1, 2008
Now Is The Time!
That's right! The holidays are here and now is the time to take advantage of all those lonely single women who don't have a special someone over the holidays. If you were thinking of taking a break, well think again!
I remember back when I first started out with online dating. I would send out emails constantly and never take a break. Then the holidays would come around and I thought, "Well, now isn't the time for online dating. All the girls are on vacation." I was WRONG! The holidays are an even BETTER time to be sending out emails and fine tuning that dating profile! As I mentioned above, there are tons of lonely girls out there and the holidays are not a fun time to be alone. Women are hard wired to belong to a group. Nothing makes a person feel more excluded than being alone during the holidays.
My point? Get out there and send emails to all the women you can find. Who knows, you might find that perfect date for New Year's Eve.
I remember back when I first started out with online dating. I would send out emails constantly and never take a break. Then the holidays would come around and I thought, "Well, now isn't the time for online dating. All the girls are on vacation." I was WRONG! The holidays are an even BETTER time to be sending out emails and fine tuning that dating profile! As I mentioned above, there are tons of lonely girls out there and the holidays are not a fun time to be alone. Women are hard wired to belong to a group. Nothing makes a person feel more excluded than being alone during the holidays.
My point? Get out there and send emails to all the women you can find. Who knows, you might find that perfect date for New Year's Eve.
Monday, November 10, 2008
What To Say When She "Rejects" You...
So, you've sent an email to a woman you REALLY like. It was one of your BEST emails, one that will surely catch her attention. You wait a few days for her response and...... nothing.
You wait a few more days and still no response.
So, you send her your standard, "no response" email. She's sure to respond to that one.
You wait a few days and THERE IT IS!
She responded! You read her response which says,
"Hi, so sorry about not getting back to you. Things have been really hectic around here. Unfortunately, I don't think we are a good match."
Take care,
(name)
Ah, there it is... The "take care" message that so many women send. I would swear they all belong to some underground women's group where they all use this "take care" message as
their standard response. It's kind of like a woman's standard fake number.
If you've been involved in online dating for any length of time, I'm sure you've seen this response.
So, how do you respond?
Well, lets first talk about what NOT to do.
What you don't do is get all mad and send her an angry response. Here's one a woman once got from an angry guy,
"You know, I don't know how you can reject someone when you haven't even met them in person. You don't even know me. We could have been a great match. Next time, why don't you give a guy a chance.."
Now, don't ever send a response like that. What does the above message say about a person?
It says,
"I'm angry, rejected and I'm putting too much importance on what you think of me. I don't have a whole lot going on in my life so I was hoping you would like me. I feel so bad about you rejecting me that I'm going to try and get you back by shaming you."
See, how silly that is? No woman on an internet dating site who you've never even met should ever have the ability to lower you like that. It doesn't do any good to get angry and try and "get her back." That's a waste of time and energy.
Instead, send her back something like this:
"Hey, no problem! I've got thick skin. Anyway, good luck out there. You're going to need it."
Says all the right things about you and it's rather ambiguous with the "you're going to need it" comment at the end. She'll be dying to know what you mean by that... it might even get her coming back to you.
Try it and let me know what happens.
You wait a few more days and still no response.
So, you send her your standard, "no response" email. She's sure to respond to that one.
You wait a few days and THERE IT IS!
She responded! You read her response which says,
"Hi, so sorry about not getting back to you. Things have been really hectic around here. Unfortunately, I don't think we are a good match."
Take care,
(name)
Ah, there it is... The "take care" message that so many women send. I would swear they all belong to some underground women's group where they all use this "take care" message as
their standard response. It's kind of like a woman's standard fake number.
If you've been involved in online dating for any length of time, I'm sure you've seen this response.
So, how do you respond?
Well, lets first talk about what NOT to do.
What you don't do is get all mad and send her an angry response. Here's one a woman once got from an angry guy,
"You know, I don't know how you can reject someone when you haven't even met them in person. You don't even know me. We could have been a great match. Next time, why don't you give a guy a chance.."
Now, don't ever send a response like that. What does the above message say about a person?
It says,
"I'm angry, rejected and I'm putting too much importance on what you think of me. I don't have a whole lot going on in my life so I was hoping you would like me. I feel so bad about you rejecting me that I'm going to try and get you back by shaming you."
See, how silly that is? No woman on an internet dating site who you've never even met should ever have the ability to lower you like that. It doesn't do any good to get angry and try and "get her back." That's a waste of time and energy.
Instead, send her back something like this:
"Hey, no problem! I've got thick skin. Anyway, good luck out there. You're going to need it."
Says all the right things about you and it's rather ambiguous with the "you're going to need it" comment at the end. She'll be dying to know what you mean by that... it might even get her coming back to you.
Try it and let me know what happens.
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Secret Halloween Online Dating Tips
So, Halloween is here! Always my favorite time of year. When I was a kid, obviously I loved Halloween because of the pillow case full of candy I would always receive from generous neighbors.
Now it's not so much about candy, it's more about Halloween parties with sexy women in mind blowing SEXY costumes! Just go out on the streets Friday night and you'll find them... kitty outfits, devil outfits, cop girl outfits, and I'm sure we're going to see more than a few Sarah Palin clones out there this year. Not that I mind.
So, how does online dating fit into all of this. Well, now's the time to send a "Halloween Party" email template to women. Chances are, you know where a halloween party is this year and if you don't, ask someone where one is.
Go online and send a woman something like,
Subject: "Halloween Party Wanted"
Body: "OK, you look like a person who just might know where one is in our lovely town. So, show me the way to the nearest, wildest Halloween Party and I just might give you the pleasure of escorting me.
Let me know soon! Time is running out!
Name
There you go. Try it out. You just might meet someone special and have the time of your life in the process.
Now it's not so much about candy, it's more about Halloween parties with sexy women in mind blowing SEXY costumes! Just go out on the streets Friday night and you'll find them... kitty outfits, devil outfits, cop girl outfits, and I'm sure we're going to see more than a few Sarah Palin clones out there this year. Not that I mind.
So, how does online dating fit into all of this. Well, now's the time to send a "Halloween Party" email template to women. Chances are, you know where a halloween party is this year and if you don't, ask someone where one is.
Go online and send a woman something like,
Subject: "Halloween Party Wanted"
Body: "OK, you look like a person who just might know where one is in our lovely town. So, show me the way to the nearest, wildest Halloween Party and I just might give you the pleasure of escorting me.
Let me know soon! Time is running out!
Name
There you go. Try it out. You just might meet someone special and have the time of your life in the process.
Monday, October 27, 2008
The BEST sample profiles
So, you sit down to write a dating profile and you have NO idea what to write. You REALLY want to write one up but NOTHING is coming to mind.
Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?
Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?
No, not a good idea!
It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.
There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.
If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.
It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.
It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.
So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.
Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?
Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?
No, not a good idea!
It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.
There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.
If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.
It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.
It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.
So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.
Friday, October 17, 2008
Make it a Habit!
One really important thing to do when you're "online dating" is to develop a system that works for you. Take all the components involved; designing an eye-catching profile and tweaking it, responding to women, going out on dates, calling women, and create a system that will allow you to have all of it on autopilot.
Let's take emailing women as an example. You come home from work after a busy day and you decide to fire off some emails. Well, first you need to check your inbox and see who has emailed and winked at you. Go through the winks and decide which of the women who sent them you find attractive. Don't wink back at them! Instead, fire off your standard, "wink response" and see if she bites. If not, no big deal. Now quickly move to your emails. Again, decide which ones you like and send your standard, "she emailed first" response...
Done. That was easy!
Now, quickly check out the profiles of women who have viewed you recently. These are women who are already interested in you... Look for ones you find attractive and send your standard, "viewed me" email to them. If she bites fine. If not, move on.
Decide to send a total of five emails tonight. If the amount of "viewed me" emails you just sent doesn't total five, start doing a profile search in your area. Find women you really like and then fire off your standard, "first email."
You sent five emails! You're done for tonight! Now go on to something more important while you wait to see the results of your efforts.
That's it! Online Dating on autopilot. Make it a habit!
Let's take emailing women as an example. You come home from work after a busy day and you decide to fire off some emails. Well, first you need to check your inbox and see who has emailed and winked at you. Go through the winks and decide which of the women who sent them you find attractive. Don't wink back at them! Instead, fire off your standard, "wink response" and see if she bites. If not, no big deal. Now quickly move to your emails. Again, decide which ones you like and send your standard, "she emailed first" response...
Done. That was easy!
Now, quickly check out the profiles of women who have viewed you recently. These are women who are already interested in you... Look for ones you find attractive and send your standard, "viewed me" email to them. If she bites fine. If not, move on.
Decide to send a total of five emails tonight. If the amount of "viewed me" emails you just sent doesn't total five, start doing a profile search in your area. Find women you really like and then fire off your standard, "first email."
You sent five emails! You're done for tonight! Now go on to something more important while you wait to see the results of your efforts.
That's it! Online Dating on autopilot. Make it a habit!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
The Best Cities For Singles??
OK, here is an article from Forbes Magazine "claiming" to know the best cities for singles. Check it out:
If you’re living life solo, Atlanta is the place to be right now. Its night life, high number of singles and job growth earned it the top spot. San Francisco slipped to second.
By Michael Noer, Forbes
For the first time ever, Atlanta tops Forbes’ list of the best cities for singles. The capital of Georgia and home of Coca-Cola earns the top slot because of its hopping night life, relatively high number of singles and sizzling job growth.
To those who know "Hotlanta," the ranking should come as no surprise. In the eight years that Forbes has been ranking America's largest urban areas in terms of their friendliness to the nation's 74 million single adults, only once did Atlanta place outside the top 10.
To determine which U.S. cities are most comfortable for singles, Forbes ranked the 40 largest urbanized areas in mainland America in seven different categories: number of singles, night life, culture, cost of living alone, job growth, online dating activity and coolness. To determine a city's cool factor, Forbes partnered with Harris Interactive, which conducted a poll asking, "Among the following U.S. cities, which one do you think is the coolest?"
Last year's winner, San Francisco, came in second this year, scoring particularly high in coolness (third out of 40) and culture (fourth). Overall, the coolest city was New York, while Midwestern cities such as Indianapolis (40th) and Columbus, Ohio, (35th) did poorly in the Harris poll.
Overall, New York ranked as only the eighth-best place for would-be lovers. In addition to its top score in coolness, the Big Apple was ranked as the city with the best night life and the third-best cultural resources. But young singles need to eat as well as party, and New York scored dead last in the cost-of-living category. The city also placed a mediocre 29th in terms of job growth. Economic factors have always kept New York out of the top spot on the list.
The nation's second-largest city, Los Angeles, came in 16th this year, a precipitous drop from its third-place finish in 2007. Blame the cost of living in sun-drenched SoCal and a lackadaisical online dating culture.
Jacksonville, Fla., ranked dead last this year, scoring poorly in all categories except online dating, where it ranked seventh. Providence, R.I. — last year's loneliest city for singles — fared better, tying with Memphis, Tenn., and Cincinnati for 33rd place. Religious Salt Lake City, a perennial at the bottom of the list, comes in 39th this year. Mormonism's hometown is penalized for its lack of available singles (39th), dismal night life (39th) and square image (coolness: 38th).
Some surprises: Orlando, Fla., which had never placed in the top 10 before, finished in ninth place. Minneapolis-St. Paul hadn't made the top 10 since 2002 but came in third this year. The Twin Cities scored well in culture (ninth) and online dating (sixth) and ranked surprisingly high in coolness (eighth). Perhaps some respondents thought the Harris poll was asking about the weather.
Forbes’ rankings are meant to be a guide for young, ambitious singles who, in an age of techno-mobility, can live and work wherever they want. The methodology focuses on career-minded "never-marrieds" under 35. Older singles, divorced people, widows and widowers might find slightly different criteria more relevant to them.
Here are the top five:
Atlanta
San Francisco
Dallas (tie)
Minneapolis (tie)
Washington, D.C.
Well well! Sounds like good job security for the team of "experts" who are generating this nonsense!
Here's the bottom line; There are attractive, high quality, attractive, single women in EVERY city in the world! There are TONS of women on internet dating sites on every city in the world. If you choose to believe in the negative and think there are NO women around you then you are going to end up dating NO women! I used to use that as an excuse believeing there were NO quality women in my area. I had a whole list of reasons including:
They're all too stuckup.
They're all gold diggers.
They're only into tall guys.
They're all emotionally unavailable.
They're all too fat.
Believe me, I was very good at coming up with excuses to NOT date women in my area.
Don't do it! You're only giving into fear. There are always tons of good women around you.
YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THEM!!
If you use my strategies for dating women online, then you will find them... quickly! It's just a matter of learning the skills and then applying what you've learned. It's so quick and easy to do, that you'll kick yourself for not doing it sooner!
So, go online and start finding women! There is NO excuse for being alone!
If you’re living life solo, Atlanta is the place to be right now. Its night life, high number of singles and job growth earned it the top spot. San Francisco slipped to second.
By Michael Noer, Forbes
For the first time ever, Atlanta tops Forbes’ list of the best cities for singles. The capital of Georgia and home of Coca-Cola earns the top slot because of its hopping night life, relatively high number of singles and sizzling job growth.
To those who know "Hotlanta," the ranking should come as no surprise. In the eight years that Forbes has been ranking America's largest urban areas in terms of their friendliness to the nation's 74 million single adults, only once did Atlanta place outside the top 10.
To determine which U.S. cities are most comfortable for singles, Forbes ranked the 40 largest urbanized areas in mainland America in seven different categories: number of singles, night life, culture, cost of living alone, job growth, online dating activity and coolness. To determine a city's cool factor, Forbes partnered with Harris Interactive, which conducted a poll asking, "Among the following U.S. cities, which one do you think is the coolest?"
Last year's winner, San Francisco, came in second this year, scoring particularly high in coolness (third out of 40) and culture (fourth). Overall, the coolest city was New York, while Midwestern cities such as Indianapolis (40th) and Columbus, Ohio, (35th) did poorly in the Harris poll.
Overall, New York ranked as only the eighth-best place for would-be lovers. In addition to its top score in coolness, the Big Apple was ranked as the city with the best night life and the third-best cultural resources. But young singles need to eat as well as party, and New York scored dead last in the cost-of-living category. The city also placed a mediocre 29th in terms of job growth. Economic factors have always kept New York out of the top spot on the list.
The nation's second-largest city, Los Angeles, came in 16th this year, a precipitous drop from its third-place finish in 2007. Blame the cost of living in sun-drenched SoCal and a lackadaisical online dating culture.
Jacksonville, Fla., ranked dead last this year, scoring poorly in all categories except online dating, where it ranked seventh. Providence, R.I. — last year's loneliest city for singles — fared better, tying with Memphis, Tenn., and Cincinnati for 33rd place. Religious Salt Lake City, a perennial at the bottom of the list, comes in 39th this year. Mormonism's hometown is penalized for its lack of available singles (39th), dismal night life (39th) and square image (coolness: 38th).
Some surprises: Orlando, Fla., which had never placed in the top 10 before, finished in ninth place. Minneapolis-St. Paul hadn't made the top 10 since 2002 but came in third this year. The Twin Cities scored well in culture (ninth) and online dating (sixth) and ranked surprisingly high in coolness (eighth). Perhaps some respondents thought the Harris poll was asking about the weather.
Forbes’ rankings are meant to be a guide for young, ambitious singles who, in an age of techno-mobility, can live and work wherever they want. The methodology focuses on career-minded "never-marrieds" under 35. Older singles, divorced people, widows and widowers might find slightly different criteria more relevant to them.
Here are the top five:
Atlanta
San Francisco
Dallas (tie)
Minneapolis (tie)
Washington, D.C.
Well well! Sounds like good job security for the team of "experts" who are generating this nonsense!
Here's the bottom line; There are attractive, high quality, attractive, single women in EVERY city in the world! There are TONS of women on internet dating sites on every city in the world. If you choose to believe in the negative and think there are NO women around you then you are going to end up dating NO women! I used to use that as an excuse believeing there were NO quality women in my area. I had a whole list of reasons including:
They're all too stuckup.
They're all gold diggers.
They're only into tall guys.
They're all emotionally unavailable.
They're all too fat.
Believe me, I was very good at coming up with excuses to NOT date women in my area.
Don't do it! You're only giving into fear. There are always tons of good women around you.
YOU JUST HAVE TO FIND THEM!!
If you use my strategies for dating women online, then you will find them... quickly! It's just a matter of learning the skills and then applying what you've learned. It's so quick and easy to do, that you'll kick yourself for not doing it sooner!
So, go online and start finding women! There is NO excuse for being alone!
Friday, September 26, 2008
Internet Dating Photos
It always amazes me when I see some of the photos guys are posting on their online dating profiles. If you want to see what I mean just simply go to Craigslist and search the "men seeking women" ads.
It's funny, because one thing I like to do before posting an ad on Craigslist is go through all those ads and make a note of some of the worst pictures I see, them reference them in my profile.
Say some guy has a picture of himself posing in the bathroom mirror with his shirt off. He takes the picture with his cell phone so all you see is some shirtless dude in his bathroom holding his cell phone to his face. (This is VERY common on Craigslist, BTW.)
So, I see that picture and then I'll reference it in my write up. I might start off my profile with something like this:
"OK, I know the guy below me posing in the bathroom mirror with his shirt off is really getting you hot and bothered, but I don't think he's quite your type. Anyway..."
See that? What an awesome way to start an online profile! As you know, I'm a big fan of starting off humorous and that more than does the job. So, I really recommend you check out some profiles with terrible pics and try and reference them in your profile. You'll get her laughing and then you'll have her phone number in no time!
It's funny, because one thing I like to do before posting an ad on Craigslist is go through all those ads and make a note of some of the worst pictures I see, them reference them in my profile.
Say some guy has a picture of himself posing in the bathroom mirror with his shirt off. He takes the picture with his cell phone so all you see is some shirtless dude in his bathroom holding his cell phone to his face. (This is VERY common on Craigslist, BTW.)
So, I see that picture and then I'll reference it in my write up. I might start off my profile with something like this:
"OK, I know the guy below me posing in the bathroom mirror with his shirt off is really getting you hot and bothered, but I don't think he's quite your type. Anyway..."
See that? What an awesome way to start an online profile! As you know, I'm a big fan of starting off humorous and that more than does the job. So, I really recommend you check out some profiles with terrible pics and try and reference them in your profile. You'll get her laughing and then you'll have her phone number in no time!
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Great Profile Headlines Online Dating
So, one of my favorite things to do is to go on Craigslist and check out the personals section to see how the guys are doing. Unfortunately, I usually end up disappointed. You see, when I go to the "Men seeking Women" section and look at their profile subject lines, I can't help but shake my head.
Here are several examples taken right off CL.
Hey Baby!
Hey!
Gentlemen seeks a beautiful companion.
Chat!
SWM seeking soulmate possibilities
SWM searching for a close discreet friend.
Looking to have some fun.
Got a bun in the oven? (What?)
Dinner and a Movie?
Canvas Converse in the Boardroom.
RIGHT HERE.
This is who I am! Please help.
If you're petite with a tight little...
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.
mature
A Really Nice Guy
Looking to Date Again
Good god!! There are so many things wrong with the above, I wouldn't know where to start! I'm not even sure what a couple of them mean! When it comes to getting attention, lots of guys have really gotten creative, and NOT in a good way.
Writing an online profile does NOT have to be difficult. Remember, attractive women on dating sites have plenty of options to choose from so you want a profile headline that's not only creative, but GET'S ATTENTION! And isn't creepy and weird.
I like to use ambiguous headlines that generate mystery. You know, a headline that makes her HAVE to know what I'm talking about...
Something like; "Oh no! I can't BELIEVE you're going to do that!"
Now, when a woman is browsing through a list of endless boring profiles, what do you think she'll do when she sees this subject line? I'm going to bet that she'll click on it to see what I mean by "that."
And that's what you want! Women can't turn down a mystery....EVER!
So, when you go online and write up a profile, try coming up with a subject line similar to what I have above. And come up with a clever way to start out your profile answering the subject line.
I'm telling you, this gets women to click through EVERY time!!
Here are several examples taken right off CL.
Hey Baby!
Hey!
Gentlemen seeks a beautiful companion.
Chat!
SWM seeking soulmate possibilities
SWM searching for a close discreet friend.
Looking to have some fun.
Got a bun in the oven? (What?)
Dinner and a Movie?
Canvas Converse in the Boardroom.
RIGHT HERE.
This is who I am! Please help.
If you're petite with a tight little...
Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.
mature
A Really Nice Guy
Looking to Date Again
Good god!! There are so many things wrong with the above, I wouldn't know where to start! I'm not even sure what a couple of them mean! When it comes to getting attention, lots of guys have really gotten creative, and NOT in a good way.
Writing an online profile does NOT have to be difficult. Remember, attractive women on dating sites have plenty of options to choose from so you want a profile headline that's not only creative, but GET'S ATTENTION! And isn't creepy and weird.
I like to use ambiguous headlines that generate mystery. You know, a headline that makes her HAVE to know what I'm talking about...
Something like; "Oh no! I can't BELIEVE you're going to do that!"
Now, when a woman is browsing through a list of endless boring profiles, what do you think she'll do when she sees this subject line? I'm going to bet that she'll click on it to see what I mean by "that."
And that's what you want! Women can't turn down a mystery....EVER!
So, when you go online and write up a profile, try coming up with a subject line similar to what I have above. And come up with a clever way to start out your profile answering the subject line.
I'm telling you, this gets women to click through EVERY time!!
Friday, September 5, 2008
This Scares me...
So, what were you thinking when you read that subject line?
I'm going to read your mind and guess that you really needed
to see what this post is about. I mean, if I saw a subject line
that read, "This Scares me...", I'm going to open it up right
away!
Well, when I saw this subject line in my email inbox, I came up
with a pretty cool idea. Now, you know I really like coming up
with clever subject lines for my online dating emails. Nothing
is more important than getting your emails opened because
attractive women get bombarded with emails from guys all
the time.
So, how about I use the above subject line in an email!
I can see it now:
Subject: This Scares me...
Body: I mean, you are getting flooded with emails from
guys that just DON'T get it! And you were about to
respond to one of them?? Don't do it! Seriously!
Anyway...
There we go. Just continue on from there. You can
come up with all kinds of clever ways to expand on
that subject line.
Go for it! And let me know how it goes.
And stay tuned for more Internet Dating Tips.
Christophe
I'm going to read your mind and guess that you really needed
to see what this post is about. I mean, if I saw a subject line
that read, "This Scares me...", I'm going to open it up right
away!
Well, when I saw this subject line in my email inbox, I came up
with a pretty cool idea. Now, you know I really like coming up
with clever subject lines for my online dating emails. Nothing
is more important than getting your emails opened because
attractive women get bombarded with emails from guys all
the time.
So, how about I use the above subject line in an email!
I can see it now:
Subject: This Scares me...
Body: I mean, you are getting flooded with emails from
guys that just DON'T get it! And you were about to
respond to one of them?? Don't do it! Seriously!
Anyway...
There we go. Just continue on from there. You can
come up with all kinds of clever ways to expand on
that subject line.
Go for it! And let me know how it goes.
And stay tuned for more Internet Dating Tips.
Christophe
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
Top Internet Dating Site
Here's a recent article from Reuters. Apparently, media metrix ranked "Plentyoffish.com" the number one dating site in North America.
Check this out:
"Media Metrix Ranks Plentyoffish.com #1 Dating Site in North Americaand U.K. by Total Visits.VANCOUVER, Canada, July 29 /PRNewswire/ -- The latest comScore MediaMetrix numbers now rank the free dating site Plentyoffish.com as the leadingdating site in both North America (U.S.A. + Canada) and the United Kingdom.
Top 10 North American Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish - 36,825
Singlesnet - 29,896
eHarmony - 19,269
Match.com - 18,329
Yahoo!Personals - 16,365
People Media Sites - 12,340
TRUE.com - 10,716
SparkNetworks - 9,124
Mate1.com - 4,847
Humor Rainbow, Inc - 3,714
Top 10 U.K. Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish - 8,052
Meetic - 4,024
Match.com - 2,724
Gaydar.co.uk - 2,617
GirlsDateForFree - 1,392
WhiteLabelDating.com - 1,120
EasyDate - 1,110
Smooch.com - 1,102
QuickFlirt - 1,054
LoopyLove - 853
On Monday 14th July, the CEO and Founder Markus Frind opened up his 26th floor office in downtown Vancouver. Plentyoffish.com has hired its first six employees, the first six of a planned thirty person team that is being assembled to help roll out new advertising programs.
Users don't pay for memberships but Plentyoffish.com makes over $10 million a year from advertising from Google Adsense and numerous CPA programs. The site is run on Microsoft ASP.net and is highly optimized to provide behaviorally based matchmaking to its users. "We introduce singles to other singles based on their actual search behavior on the site," stated CEO/Founder Markus Frind. "Singles generally don't really know what they want but their behaviors are a key indicator of their true underlying desires."
Analyst and dating industry consultant Mark Brooks commented, "Plentyoffish.com has grown to this #1 spot because quite simply, it works."
About Plentyoffish
Plentyoffish.com was created and founded by Markus Frind in 2003 and has changed the face of the online dating industry by showing singles they don't have to pay to find love. Driven almost entirely by word of mouth referrals, Plentyoffish has grown to be the #1 dating site in the world, overall. #1 in North America, and #1 in the UK when ranked by activity. (Rankings listed at OnlinePersonalsWatch.com). Every day, more than 800,000 singles login to Plentyoffish.com as their online dating destination of choice."
Well there you have it! The number one Internet Dating site is absolutely 100% FREE!! Go check it out! And also check out my list of other awesome free online dating sites included in the "Internet Dating Mastery" bonus package!
Who says you have to pay to meet women online??
Check this out:
"Media Metrix Ranks Plentyoffish.com #1 Dating Site in North Americaand U.K. by Total Visits.VANCOUVER, Canada, July 29 /PRNewswire/ -- The latest comScore MediaMetrix numbers now rank the free dating site Plentyoffish.com as the leadingdating site in both North America (U.S.A. + Canada) and the United Kingdom.
Top 10 North American Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish - 36,825
Singlesnet - 29,896
eHarmony - 19,269
Match.com - 18,329
Yahoo!Personals - 16,365
People Media Sites - 12,340
TRUE.com - 10,716
SparkNetworks - 9,124
Mate1.com - 4,847
Humor Rainbow, Inc - 3,714
Top 10 U.K. Dating Sites by Total Visits (000's)
PlentyofFish - 8,052
Meetic - 4,024
Match.com - 2,724
Gaydar.co.uk - 2,617
GirlsDateForFree - 1,392
WhiteLabelDating.com - 1,120
EasyDate - 1,110
Smooch.com - 1,102
QuickFlirt - 1,054
LoopyLove - 853
On Monday 14th July, the CEO and Founder Markus Frind opened up his 26th floor office in downtown Vancouver. Plentyoffish.com has hired its first six employees, the first six of a planned thirty person team that is being assembled to help roll out new advertising programs.
Users don't pay for memberships but Plentyoffish.com makes over $10 million a year from advertising from Google Adsense and numerous CPA programs. The site is run on Microsoft ASP.net and is highly optimized to provide behaviorally based matchmaking to its users. "We introduce singles to other singles based on their actual search behavior on the site," stated CEO/Founder Markus Frind. "Singles generally don't really know what they want but their behaviors are a key indicator of their true underlying desires."
Analyst and dating industry consultant Mark Brooks commented, "Plentyoffish.com has grown to this #1 spot because quite simply, it works."
About Plentyoffish
Plentyoffish.com was created and founded by Markus Frind in 2003 and has changed the face of the online dating industry by showing singles they don't have to pay to find love. Driven almost entirely by word of mouth referrals, Plentyoffish has grown to be the #1 dating site in the world, overall. #1 in North America, and #1 in the UK when ranked by activity. (Rankings listed at OnlinePersonalsWatch.com). Every day, more than 800,000 singles login to Plentyoffish.com as their online dating destination of choice."
Well there you have it! The number one Internet Dating site is absolutely 100% FREE!! Go check it out! And also check out my list of other awesome free online dating sites included in the "Internet Dating Mastery" bonus package!
Who says you have to pay to meet women online??
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