Monday, October 27, 2008

The BEST sample profiles

So, you sit down to write a dating profile and you have NO idea what to write. You REALLY want to write one up but NOTHING is coming to mind.

Well, why not use a profile someone else wrote?

Wouldn't it be a whole lot easier to just rip off some other guy's profile and use it as your own?

No, not a good idea!

It's never good to copy another guy's profile word for word and post it under your name.

There are several reasons for that. One being is it won't make any sense. When a woman reads your profile she is already starting to figure out what kind of person you are. Now, after she responds to you, she is expecting the same guy she read about to respond back to her.

If she sees someone else respond, it's pretty much game over.

It has to do with congruency. Everything in the online dating process needs to be congruent from your profile, pictures, and emails, all the way to who you are in person. If anything is off, you're going to have a hard time finding a high quality woman online.

It is OK to use sample profiles but NOT for copying. They are to be used for modeling. You want to model success not copy it.

So, next time you write a profile, keep that in mind.

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