Is that what you believe? I sincerely hope not!
I was just talking to a female friend of mine and she refused to believe that a guy could meet quality women online and run "smooth game" on the internet.
I had to laugh as she said that. It's so funny how some people believe there's a stigma with online dating and only "losers" are looking for dates online. Those who have such a ridiculous belief generally fall into one of two categories.
1) They've NEVER tried online dating and don't know what it's about.
2) They tried it once, didn't know how to do it effectively and failed at it. Then they gave up convinced that it's a waste of time.
Well, I have to feel sorry for folks in both groups. If you fall into the first group then that's OK. You just need to take some action and get into the game. The sooner the better!
As far as the second group, well all you have to do is learn how to meet people online the right way. And if you use my strategies for meeting quality women online, you'll have more dates that you've ever had before!
So, I told my friend all about how I've met tons of cool, attractive women online and how it's important for guys to be non-needy, convey their confidence and show their personalities in their profiles. She didn't have much to say after that.
To all those people who think online dating is for losers. Well, go right ahead. In the mean time the rest of us will enjoy meeting tons of quality women from the .... gulp Internet.
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ReplyDeleteIt is a great place to meet people indeed! Especially when the two of you chat on IM and found that there's a connection, even if it's just a little bit. This might lead to real life dating and possibly marriage! I have seen people who met online and got married!
Yes, it is a GREAT place to meet women. Unfortunately, most guys don't have the right tools and attitude when it comes to meeting women online. Oh, and don't spend too much time chatting on IM.. take it to the phone and then in person as quick as possible!
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ReplyDeleteInternet dating is a waste of time. First of all, attractive women do not usually need to resort to the internet to find dates, they are regularly approached by men.
ReplyDeleteSecond, many women stop communicating once you suggest taking things beyond cyber friends and actually meet in person.
If you only knew how many attractive women I've met online. Try it out, you might be surprised!
ReplyDeleteYour standards are probably lower than most people
DeleteHmm.....undecided. I'm OK in the flesh, but no good on the web
ReplyDeleteI am an attractive woman who has tried online dating. And not all attractive women are approached on a regular basis. In fact, the only ones that approach me are looking for one thing (which we all know what that is).
ReplyDeleteAnyway, it seems that the only men I attracted online are the ones that were only looking for a webcam girl or that one thing I mentioned earlier. I have pretty much given up on trying to find anyone right now. I have wasted too much time trying to find the right guy, so I am now going to wait until he falls in my lap.
I agree with the above comment that, for the most part, women you meet online run away as soon as you suggest they get off their lazy fat asses and go out. The reason why they are ONLINE in the first place is that they DO NOT GO OUT. EVER. Well, a few do, and you can meet a lot of whores looking to get laid, but if you;re looking for a quality woman, forget it. The ones online are either whores or losers.
ReplyDeleteMy experiences with online dating have been both poppycockish and objectionable. Almost all of them showed signs of being mentally defective and all of them were homely enough to sour milk. There was only one exception, a beautiful blonde. Sadly, she was a divorcee with a truckload of tween-aged children who lived with her ex-hubby. It wasn't until later in life that I realized I repeatedly picked lemon after lemon because I was a full-time hack with no self-esteem. Now that I have my doo-doo together I don't need to hide behind a computer monitor anymore. It is a refreshing challenge to meet real live women one-on-one, face-to-face in real live places instead of the shuckin' and jivin' online dating encourages. I'm trying not to cast a sweeping judgment on the game but most people online are indeed perpetratin' a fraud. Nine times out of ten they are going to be more heavier, more self-centered, more strange and more unattractive in person. Simply, online dating is for folks with no self-esteem that can't hack it in the mainstream social arena. I can truly understand hitting up Match.Com if a woman looks like Lebron James in a wig or if a dude looks like Flava Flav or "J.J." from "Good Times" but there is something horribly, terribly wrong in Denmark if a beautiful, intelligent woman or a handsome, strapping dude has to troll the Internet for a date. Trust me when I say that it is better to meet people the old-fashioned way--the way our peeps did back in the day. It just sounds more credible and professional to say you met your papi or your old lady at the bookstore or the museum or the antique store. To say I met my main squeeze online just sounds plain cheesy not to mention wickety-wack!
ReplyDeleteOnline dating only works if you live close by. Meet someone online and if they're local then meet them in-person. Long distance relationships are always bunk!
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